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		<title>Comment on Thought du Jour by danspira</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 18:46:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[from Wikipedia entry on &lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/W._Edwards_Deming&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;W. Edwards Deming&lt;/a&gt;: 

&lt;em&gt;&quot;Experience by itself teaches nothing.&quot;This statement emphasizes the need to interpret and apply information against a theory or framework of concepts that is the basis for knowledge about a system. It is considered as a contrast to the old statement, &quot;Experience is the best teacher&quot; (Dr. Deming disagreed with that). To Dr. Deming, knowledge is best taught by a master who explains the overall system through which experience is judged; &lt;strong&gt;experience, without understanding the underlying system, is just raw data that can be misinterpreted against a flawed theory of reality.&lt;/strong&gt; Deming&#039;s view of experience is related to Shewhart&#039;s concept, &quot;Data has no meaning apart from its context&quot;.&lt;/em&gt;

The citation provided by Wikipedia goes to &lt;a href=&quot;http://deming.org/index.cfm?content=653&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;this page on Deming.org&lt;/a&gt;, which has the following quote: 

&lt;em&gt;“If you don’t have a theory, you don’t have an experience. (...) Without theory there is no observation; there is no experience.” &lt;/em&gt;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>from Wikipedia entry on <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/W._Edwards_Deming" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">W. Edwards Deming</a>: </p>
<p><em>&#8220;Experience by itself teaches nothing.&#8221;This statement emphasizes the need to interpret and apply information against a theory or framework of concepts that is the basis for knowledge about a system. It is considered as a contrast to the old statement, &#8220;Experience is the best teacher&#8221; (Dr. Deming disagreed with that). To Dr. Deming, knowledge is best taught by a master who explains the overall system through which experience is judged; <strong>experience, without understanding the underlying system, is just raw data that can be misinterpreted against a flawed theory of reality.</strong> Deming&#8217;s view of experience is related to Shewhart&#8217;s concept, &#8220;Data has no meaning apart from its context&#8221;.</em></p>
<p>The citation provided by Wikipedia goes to <a href="http://deming.org/index.cfm?content=653" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">this page on Deming.org</a>, which has the following quote: </p>
<p><em>“If you don’t have a theory, you don’t have an experience. (&#8230;) Without theory there is no observation; there is no experience.” </em></p>
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		<title>Comment on Top Five Weaknesses of StrengthsFinder by Vilma</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Vilma]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 18:16:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am a collector of song lyrics. So, thanks for these nice lines. In my culture I would hear that quote a lot, the one of 99 % vs 1 % - not that I apply it. When I was younger, I was more willing to do different jobs to challange myself. Now I want to do only what I am good at. But, I appreciate people who are courageous and challenge themselves by trying different things. I think that&#039;s what makes strong living. 
 
This is such a broad topic and I still have thoughts running in my head, but the writing cannot catch the speed of my thoughts. Plus, I should organize them. Anyways, it was valuable sharing thoughts with you. 

P.S. Your Albanian is great! :))]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a collector of song lyrics. So, thanks for these nice lines. In my culture I would hear that quote a lot, the one of 99 % vs 1 % &#8211; not that I apply it. When I was younger, I was more willing to do different jobs to challange myself. Now I want to do only what I am good at. But, I appreciate people who are courageous and challenge themselves by trying different things. I think that&#8217;s what makes strong living. </p>
<p>This is such a broad topic and I still have thoughts running in my head, but the writing cannot catch the speed of my thoughts. Plus, I should organize them. Anyways, it was valuable sharing thoughts with you. </p>
<p>P.S. Your Albanian is great! <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> )</p>
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		<title>Comment on The &#8216;V&#8217; Word by danspira</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 16:29:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Similar to what you&#039;re describing: One of my clients, an architecture and interior design firm, described how they differentiate from competitors by saying, &lt;em&gt;&quot;We don&#039;t build grand edifices to ourselves.&quot;&lt;/em&gt;  What they mean by that is that they espouse a professional ethic of giving client only what they need, i.e., that they handle their client&#039;s legal cases--er, I mean, projects in a manner that does NOT serve mainly to enhance their profile as a firm. The opposite behavior would be using a cool new untested expensive material that will get them (as a firm) published in a trade magazine but not really benefit the client in any tangible or intangible way. I thought that was something that could be applied to my line of work, too... if I want to not be called a &quot;vendor,&quot; then I shouldn&#039;t &quot;vend&quot; stuff my client doesn&#039;t need. 

Also, I think you&#039;re right to point to events in recent years which have tested the integrity of the &quot;client-professional&quot; relationship.  Perhaps the rise of the term &quot;vendor&quot; is symptomatic of the erosion of trust in business.  There. I used the &quot;T&quot; word.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Similar to what you&#8217;re describing: One of my clients, an architecture and interior design firm, described how they differentiate from competitors by saying, <em>&#8220;We don&#8217;t build grand edifices to ourselves.&#8221;</em>  What they mean by that is that they espouse a professional ethic of giving client only what they need, i.e., that they handle their client&#8217;s legal cases&#8211;er, I mean, projects in a manner that does NOT serve mainly to enhance their profile as a firm. The opposite behavior would be using a cool new untested expensive material that will get them (as a firm) published in a trade magazine but not really benefit the client in any tangible or intangible way. I thought that was something that could be applied to my line of work, too&#8230; if I want to not be called a &#8220;vendor,&#8221; then I shouldn&#8217;t &#8220;vend&#8221; stuff my client doesn&#8217;t need. </p>
<p>Also, I think you&#8217;re right to point to events in recent years which have tested the integrity of the &#8220;client-professional&#8221; relationship.  Perhaps the rise of the term &#8220;vendor&#8221; is symptomatic of the erosion of trust in business.  There. I used the &#8220;T&#8221; word.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Top Five Weaknesses of StrengthsFinder by danspira</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 16:12:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you a Gemini, too?  ;)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you a Gemini, too?  <img src='http://s1.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Top Five Weaknesses of StrengthsFinder by danspira</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 16:08:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Vilma, no need to apologize... your English is infinitely better than my Albanian.  (Faleminderit për përpjekjet tuaja. Nëse ju nuk e kishte bërë këtë, unë do të duhet të përdorni Google Translate për të mësuar nga ju, dhe siç e dimë ato llojet e mjeteve nuk janë shumë të besueshme ... edhe pse ata janë goxha të mirë, ndonjëherë.)  So thanks again, for taking out the time to write out your reflections. 

On your point #1) I like how you referenced self-awareness... seems like self-awareness is a required &quot;meta-strength&quot; if one is to do strengths-based developmental work... and true self-awareness doesn&#039;t come from ignoring the weaknesses/critique points about ourselves.  

This is not to say such critical self-awareness has to be overwhelmingly negative or demotivational. One of the things I find myself doing more and more, drawing from the field of Positive Psychology, is to uncover the &quot;positive intent&quot; embedded within a behavior and finding better ways to satisfy that intent.  That and other nuances (such as &quot;an overdeveloped strength can become a weakness in itself&quot;) are some of the other things I&#039;ve come to appreciate as I&#039;ve continued to explore this topic in my talent development work.   I&#039;m a fan of some of Marcus Buckingham&#039;s post-Gallup work, too. 

Anyway, the saying you quoted made me smile: &lt;em&gt;“Only 1 percent talent, 99 percent should be work.” &lt;/em&gt;   :) 

There&#039;s a song refrain along those lines: 

&lt;em&gt;
This is ten percent luck,
Twenty percent skill,
Fifteen percent concentrated power of will,
Five percent pleasure,
Fifty percent pain,
 And a hundred percent reason to remember the name
&lt;/em&gt;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Vilma, no need to apologize&#8230; your English is infinitely better than my Albanian.  (Faleminderit për përpjekjet tuaja. Nëse ju nuk e kishte bërë këtë, unë do të duhet të përdorni Google Translate për të mësuar nga ju, dhe siç e dimë ato llojet e mjeteve nuk janë shumë të besueshme &#8230; edhe pse ata janë goxha të mirë, ndonjëherë.)  So thanks again, for taking out the time to write out your reflections. </p>
<p>On your point #1) I like how you referenced self-awareness&#8230; seems like self-awareness is a required &#8220;meta-strength&#8221; if one is to do strengths-based developmental work&#8230; and true self-awareness doesn&#8217;t come from ignoring the weaknesses/critique points about ourselves.  </p>
<p>This is not to say such critical self-awareness has to be overwhelmingly negative or demotivational. One of the things I find myself doing more and more, drawing from the field of Positive Psychology, is to uncover the &#8220;positive intent&#8221; embedded within a behavior and finding better ways to satisfy that intent.  That and other nuances (such as &#8220;an overdeveloped strength can become a weakness in itself&#8221;) are some of the other things I&#8217;ve come to appreciate as I&#8217;ve continued to explore this topic in my talent development work.   I&#8217;m a fan of some of Marcus Buckingham&#8217;s post-Gallup work, too. </p>
<p>Anyway, the saying you quoted made me smile: <em>“Only 1 percent talent, 99 percent should be work.” </em>   <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
<p>There&#8217;s a song refrain along those lines: </p>
<p><em><br />
This is ten percent luck,<br />
Twenty percent skill,<br />
Fifteen percent concentrated power of will,<br />
Five percent pleasure,<br />
Fifty percent pain,<br />
 And a hundred percent reason to remember the name<br />
</em></p>
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		<title>Comment on The &#8216;V&#8217; Word by aspira</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[aspira]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 15:49:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I would parse the analysis even further.  There are those who we would like and expect to act on out behalf in our best interests and there are others who can actually be taken to task for not doing so.  A professional that has a fiduciary responsibility has an elevated action requirement.  A professional who is required act in a manner that is in accordance with a reasonable profession in his/her field (e.g.- doctors) also has an elevated duty of sorts.  The nature of the confidentiality accorded to a relationship, by law, also speaks to an elevated nature of a relationship.

While we would like a stockbrocker/money manager/mortgage broker, real estate agent, etc. to act in our best interest, the reality is that the past couple of years have shown us that many don&#039;t, and the legal requirement for them to do so is not that clear, and the requirement that they act in our best interests isn&#039;t always absolute.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would parse the analysis even further.  There are those who we would like and expect to act on out behalf in our best interests and there are others who can actually be taken to task for not doing so.  A professional that has a fiduciary responsibility has an elevated action requirement.  A professional who is required act in a manner that is in accordance with a reasonable profession in his/her field (e.g.- doctors) also has an elevated duty of sorts.  The nature of the confidentiality accorded to a relationship, by law, also speaks to an elevated nature of a relationship.</p>
<p>While we would like a stockbrocker/money manager/mortgage broker, real estate agent, etc. to act in our best interest, the reality is that the past couple of years have shown us that many don&#8217;t, and the legal requirement for them to do so is not that clear, and the requirement that they act in our best interests isn&#8217;t always absolute.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Top Five Weaknesses of StrengthsFinder by Michael Doyle</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Michael Doyle]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 15:48:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;ve got Ideation, Input, Learner, Intellection, and Includer. What a coincidence.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve got Ideation, Input, Learner, Intellection, and Includer. What a coincidence.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The &#8216;V&#8217; Word by danspira</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[danspira]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 15:22:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Heh, I knew I could lure you into this by taking a dig at lawyers. Even as I typed the word &quot;advocate&quot; in the post above I smiled to myself, knowing that I was glossing over a major element of a lawyer&#039;s service -- their fiduciary duty to clients -- and thereby enraging my cousin, New York Giants fan who was also a lawyer... wait.. what?   

Yes, it&#039;s true... and I think the &quot;elevated status&quot; you&#039;re referring to is exactly on point.  One way to screen out the term &quot;vendor&quot; might be the following question:  Do we expect this person to &lt;em&gt;act on our behalf&lt;/em&gt; in ways that requires them to carefully consider what would be in our best interests? If the answer is yes, then they&#039;re probably not just &quot;vending&quot; us something. 

Thanks for this and many other insights, Cuz.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heh, I knew I could lure you into this by taking a dig at lawyers. Even as I typed the word &#8220;advocate&#8221; in the post above I smiled to myself, knowing that I was glossing over a major element of a lawyer&#8217;s service &#8212; their fiduciary duty to clients &#8212; and thereby enraging my cousin, New York Giants fan who was also a lawyer&#8230; wait.. what?   </p>
<p>Yes, it&#8217;s true&#8230; and I think the &#8220;elevated status&#8221; you&#8217;re referring to is exactly on point.  One way to screen out the term &#8220;vendor&#8221; might be the following question:  Do we expect this person to <em>act on our behalf</em> in ways that requires them to carefully consider what would be in our best interests? If the answer is yes, then they&#8217;re probably not just &#8220;vending&#8221; us something. </p>
<p>Thanks for this and many other insights, Cuz.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Thought du Jour by danspira</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[danspira]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 15:05:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yup, this Thought du Jour is much too pithy to serve as a proper definition of the term &quot;experience.&quot;  The context of it came from a class that I started this semester, a graduate seminar style course on communication in organizations. The prof was commenting on ways that people broaden their view of the world, such as by travelling to other countries. He referenced the idea of mindfulness and how different people might be affected by experiences on different levels.  You brought up the additional angle of unconscious reflection/learning... great point to consider as well... subliminal advertisement, social learning, cultural context and all that good stuff.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yup, this Thought du Jour is much too pithy to serve as a proper definition of the term &#8220;experience.&#8221;  The context of it came from a class that I started this semester, a graduate seminar style course on communication in organizations. The prof was commenting on ways that people broaden their view of the world, such as by travelling to other countries. He referenced the idea of mindfulness and how different people might be affected by experiences on different levels.  You brought up the additional angle of unconscious reflection/learning&#8230; great point to consider as well&#8230; subliminal advertisement, social learning, cultural context and all that good stuff.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The &#8216;V&#8217; Word by aspira</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 12:39:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is important to note that some relationships do have an elevated status beyond &quot;vendor&quot; because of an elevated status between the service provider and the recipient of services.  For example (let me defend my profession for a moment - this is a unique opportunity to legitimately defend attorneys), attorneys have an elevated duty to clients that goes well beyond that of the average vendor-vendee relationship.  Our fiduciary duty to clients and the ability to protect our client communication elevates our relationship with our clients well beyond that of consultants and their clients.  I will allow for doctors, accountants, psychologists etc. to fight their own battles.  Not to worry though, Dan.  More and more, &quot;professionals&quot; are seen as &quot;vendors&quot; by our &quot;clients.&quot;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is important to note that some relationships do have an elevated status beyond &#8220;vendor&#8221; because of an elevated status between the service provider and the recipient of services.  For example (let me defend my profession for a moment &#8211; this is a unique opportunity to legitimately defend attorneys), attorneys have an elevated duty to clients that goes well beyond that of the average vendor-vendee relationship.  Our fiduciary duty to clients and the ability to protect our client communication elevates our relationship with our clients well beyond that of consultants and their clients.  I will allow for doctors, accountants, psychologists etc. to fight their own battles.  Not to worry though, Dan.  More and more, &#8220;professionals&#8221; are seen as &#8220;vendors&#8221; by our &#8220;clients.&#8221;</p>
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