Photo essay: Breaking the Dam
Posted by danspira
Underneath the dreamy pleasure of sunny freeze-thaw icicles trimming a snow-laden roof, there lays the nightmarish pain of ice dams and massive interior water damage.
Sharp, sparkling rows of glass stalactites may look ornate and perfect, but to be managed well, they require a firm hand. The dam must be broken.
Dam – n. – A large reservoir of stuff trapped inside a person’s psyche: ideas, energy, and aspirations; concerns, criteria and conditions; wants, desires and passions. Normally these feed in and flow out reliably. However from time to time the floodgate gets frozen shut and a self-reinforcing build-up occurs. As the blockage persists, intervention becomes increasingly necessary.
The first rule of being an Ice Dam Master (or Mistress): At first, you will fail. You will not completely subdue the ice dam. You will also cause physical damage to the building and possibly to yourself as the intervener.
This does not diminish you – in fact it provides you with the starting point of your credibility. Know that the vast majority of people won’t even step up and try their hand. They’ll call you crazy, but pay them no heed. The title ‘Master’ is one that is continually earned, continually improved upon.
There is a difference between being ‘dominant’ and being ‘domineering.’ The icy core of confidence is a deep sense of humility and fearlessness. True confidence is a big part of that difference.
There is also the critical difference of having compassion and a purpose that is greater than yourself. A compassionate, purposeful focus on others makes (almost) all the difference.
As you sculpt the ice and strip away its unnecessary blockages,
know that it does those things for you, too.
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Posted on March 5, 2015, in Architecture, Inspiration, Leadership, Learning, Life, Management, Metaphors, photography, Psychology, Relationships and tagged Ice, Ice dams, Physical exercise, Snow, Winter. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.